Televisons today holds clouded morning schedules filled with Astrogology, Numerology, Lucky stones , saints attracting viewers to reach their place for goodness. Questions que up on bussiness ,good fortune, job out of all this most happening question to all these divisions is when will the daughter r son get married???? In a way major interconnection of differnt forms is match making.people with stretched horoscope reach these people and the trained speakers will always end up saying wrong name or wrong date of birth or wrong time of birth is major issues on delay.its name change or lucky stone or performing rituals to god on ceratin days in week is soultion presented.
each uses one or other and wrost case all of above.here the victims are not only parents but the persons concerned too.the turmoil running in family and the person concerned would be heavy and unmeasurable.one key note here is each one of us one way or the think our special day is our birthday and gud connection with their name.how can these all be changed for their rest of their life for dream wedding.just turning on ur think pad no one can be balmed except we.are we too anxious about future rather than present.Or is we are too jealousy about person next door who uses this and if we stay out will end up as loosing side.
if its one form of modern astrology there is other form still on is horoscope matching.with other aspects like family,behaviour,edcation good the biggest thing done before persons enter as couple is weighing out the name, sun sign,moon sign and different planets,how well things match between them, future, life after 10 years,20 years.Rated on 1 to 10 with 10 being the best and each one looking for marks atleast above 7.These form of art is good and looks simple intially.
The wrost case will be if family decides it as good offer the astrologer denies it and also other way around.With few intial flops then comes the solution to wait for months to get the planets in horoscopes to settle down. In between gaps would be an approach to next astrologer who gives out ritulas to be performed.If this all sets up in months task would be simple but for a year? The anxiety will run high in air and expectations in life comes down slowly.
the victim can be no bigger than person concerned as people will surely start to loose the freshness of next phase.Each single day will be a hoping day to end the silence, depressions can never be best said. It will obviously reflect in day to day routine under performed. Here comes the questions which should be matched sign or minds,is horoscope making up things or breaking,is arranged marriages are getting complicated ????? this leads to earlier one for change of name or lucky stone.whatever is the solution each one is performed with biggest hope. hope and confidence is the key for success and by performing rituals we link ourself to those key words.believe in you and eternal spirit rather on astrologer!!!!
u r absolutely right sumi.. n the worst part of this is consulting more than 1 astrologer.. wen 2 of them givs deadly contrastin suggestions, dey go to the 3rd one n in the course end up knockin at doors of all astrologers in the town. so u start with single dosham n end up gettin all doshams u know n also hell lot of pariharam for those..
ReplyDeleteinspite of all this efforts, sometimes(now mostly) marriages lasts hardly a month.. But unfortunately our parents doesnt seem to learn from this.. Simply they go for a new astrologer r blame it on planets r time..
But will they realize that matching minds is more imp n spend atleast a small part of the time n effort they spend with the astrologer, in knowin their son/daughter's wish n expectation?....
no like button as FB to click..anyway superlike..obstacles actually teach u lot of things n its only tool to condition our minds more postively!!! darker truth of tis article is victims of tis system r large!!! success r failure is mindset n at the end of day its we who gonna carry forward in both cases!!party on success n be prepared for failure:):):) predictions actually say the samething its says u cannot escape but prepare to bring down the friction!!!on ur last line u cant change anyone but dont give up for others!!!!!most of time we r left alone n giving up for others will b pointless in tis case!!!!
ReplyDeleteSuperstition is to religion what astrology is to astronomy..The mad daughter of a wise mother.
ReplyDeleteGud one..liks it..
Seems like u ve writted this out of frustration.. Ena sumi, romba wait pana vekarangala.. unga veetla!! Jus for fun:)
ReplyDeleteI dont think this is gonna hold long with the increase in love marriages nwadays..May be its d time for sons/daughters to bring their parents out of this darkness..Practically it is nt possible n everyone's house, bt nothin wrong in givin it a try. Wat say?
@ Anonymous... as my friend said today weddings doesnt last longer ... no matter wat sort of marriage u have getting along is very imp..i din mean tis system is failure its has sum serious flaws which shud b corrected !!! i guess these gemologies n astrologies got a boom only in last 5 yrs!!! earsing tis form of wedding which holds its own strength cant b a solution!!!
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